Why is it that we sabotage ourselves in our lives, even though we know what’s better for us?

Unfortunately, most of us are stuck in a vicious cycle of self-sabotage. The more we go for what we really want, the more the mind activates survival mechanisms that prevent us from being successful. In this episode, I’ll talk about that difference between survival and living, and I’ll also share why people will always have something that’s preventing them from receiving the things they long for.

What You’ll Learn:

• What is self-sabotage?
• Why we sabotage ourselves
• The difference between survival and living 
• The childhood trauma that’s keeping you stuck
• What gives you the perception of who you are
• Why survival has nothing to do with living
• How to start loving your life
• The root cause of the sabotaging behaviour that’s keeping you stuck
• Understand that the human mind is not personal
• How to shift the relationship you have with self-sabotage
• Ways to bring consciousness to your self-sabotaging behaviour

Quotes:

• “There are really only two ways that human beings deal with pain: we either overcompensate or we submit.”
• “The more you go for what you really want, the more the mind activates the survival mechanism that’s kept you away from it.”
• “The human mind is not personal. So instead of calling it your mind, let’s call it the mind–a ruthlessly efficient pattern recognition device.”

Resources:

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